The narrator is so annoying in the beginning. But he does redeem himself."A lifestyle choice is being a Republican or a Protestant, Mom. Being gay isn't a lifestyle and it isn't a choice. It's who I am."See that? I put together an articulate sentence. I promise you, I was an actual lawyer and I talked to people for a living. I know my behavior so far has made you wonder, but hopefully I'm redeeming myself. Well said.